So, the two extremes in this argument are best represented by two stories.
I was working with a mobile service provider about a year ago and they told me something about their service philosophy that was a bit shocking to me and took me off guard. They said that they actually encouraged and pushed their service people to have customers take their issues to their stores so that they could have the chance for the sales people to get them to buy more stuff. I found this strange because it seemed that there was a cost balance that one would want to strike in providing service that ensured you were not eating up peoples time in your stores for things that could be easily dealt with over the phone. The second thing that struck me as odd was that they were going out of their way to ensure that the customer was being serviced the way the company wanted them to be serviced versus the way the customer wanted to be serviced. Again, odd to me, but that was their stated path forward. This to me is an example of an extreme non-use of technology in providing customer service.
The other extreme can be represented by the Netflix story of about a year or so ago when they refused to staff a customer service group and did not publish any kind of customer service number. Another example would be earlier this year when Google came out with their first phone and the customer service that was provided was all forum based online and there was no phone support. Both examples are classic stories of people taking technology too far and creating a poor customer experience by not connecting with their customers.
So what is the right answer? My belief is that, like anything else in the world, it is a nice balance of the two that gets you the connection that you desire without requiring customers to have too much or too little choice around the technology they use to communicate with you. A classic example of this philosophy of balance would be Apple. I am not a Apple fanatic but do have an IPhone and my wife does use a Macbook. So we have had our fair share of experiences with their service groups. The beauty of their philosophy is that they balance somewhere in the middle with providing just enough technology for their technical customers but also plenty of human interaction with their customer service numbers or their stores. This allows them to really connect with their customers in ways that are comfortable and natural for the customer versus what is natural for the company.
Finding that balance can be tricky and can take some time to do when businesses are evolving and changing so quickly. But, I would argue that getting this balance right is the only way that connections can be made and authenticity will be instilled.